Author: Tao Qing Hsu
Children's inadequate thinking
ability, coupled with inadequate life experience, cannot identify the source of
negative emotions of parents or family members.
In life, we are faced with many phenomena. If we do not think
positively, any of our emotions and thoughts will be easily affected by the
facts. In Buddhist terms, they are transferred by the facts. For example, in a
family, underage children are particularly susceptible to the negative emotions
of parents or other family members. When they are inexplicably scolded or
bullied by their family members, they even suspect their own fault or do it
themselves Not good enough. Because children's inadequate thinking ability and
lack of life experience, they cannot identify the source of negative emotions
of parents or family members.
If these children do not have the ability, or have never reflected
on these events to identify the cause of any negative emotions in their family
members, they will spend their entire lives in this tragedy and ignorance
affected by the negative emotions of their families. Some people are even used
by their families and don't even know it. In other words, unless they have the
ability to reflect consciously, or they are fortunate to be positively directed
and influenced by others, even if they are adults, even in old age, they will
be restrained by this family's negative emotions.
How to observe negative emotions
of family members?
How to observe negative emotions of family members? There is an
observed indicator, that is, accusations and complaints. Their attitude towards
things is not their own self-review, self-learning and change. Instead, they
achieve their desired goals by blaming, angering, and complaining about others.
And people who usually take this negative way, what their ability to do things
is usually insufficient. Unfortunately, such people exist not only in the
family, but also in society and the country. In fact, a country or a society is
a big family.
How can we not be affected by
negative events?
If a family, a society, or even a country is full of people with
these negative emotions, then if these numbers are accumulated, one can imagine
the misery of a family, society, and country. This usually often happens in a
self-closed family, society, and country.
So how can we not be affected by negative events? In other words,
how can we not be dragged by negative events? How can we not be restrained by
negative events? Or, how can we not be people with such negative emotions? That
is to learn Buddha well. Three Buddhist Studies: disciple, the Power of
Inner Stability, and Wisdom.
Buddhism is teaching us how to
live a positive life
Buddhism is telling us why we should learn the disciple, the
power of inner stability, and wisdom. In other words, Buddhism is teaching us
how to live a positive life. To live a positive life can make us have enough
resistance to our lives when facing various negative phenomena, so that we will
not be affected by any negative phenomena.
So how can we improve the resistance to negative phenomena from
the study of Buddha? That is, follow the Buddha's teaching well, internalize it
into your own thinking, and implement it in your life.
Chinese: 如何从学佛中提升抗压性
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