Poverty in mental is the real
poverty.
”Giving something to others is difficult when people are in poor.”
In general speaking, what we have known about the poor is meant to the shortage
in material matters in its life. That is also the meaning of the poor in this
sentence.
But, we have little known about “poverty” in mental realm. If
people are not poor in material matters, but “poor” in mental realm, they would
be not willing to give what they have owned to others. I think that such
persons are really the poor. Why? According to my observation from the history
and the society, such persons would experience the material realm from good to
bad; that is from rich to poor. In Buddhism, stinginess or mean in money in
material or in mental realm is the bad reason for our current life and our
future life, because it would really result in the poverty in material.
On the contrary, if people are poor in material matters, but are not
“poor” in mental realm, it is possible for them to give something to others. I
think that they are really the richer. Why? According to my observation, such
persons would experience the material realm from bad to good; that is from poor
to rich. In Buddhism, generousness in material or in mental realm is the good
reason for our current life and our future life. And it would thus result in
the wealth in material.
Therefore, those who are both “poor” in material matters and in
mental realm, and those who are not poor in material matters, but “poor” in
mental realm, are really the poor. That is what I define about the poor in
here.
In material and in mental, to be the
recipient is not as good as to be the giver.
The recipient here is mean to those persons who are the poverty in
material or in mental, and are happy to receive money or anything from others. Why
to be the recipient is not as good as to be the giver? If you have choices,
which one would you hope to be? Think about it.
Some people like to be the recipient and might think what they
have from others is reasonable, even though they are not poor in the material life. In
psychology, we found that the personality of such person is cline to have the
ready-made and comfortable life, but not the upright and hard working life
relying on self. If we profoundly observe them, we could find that they are not
abounding in the mental life or even un-contented in the material life, and it is thus
easy to make them have the anxiety and depression.
Only when we are rich in the mental and material life, and healthy in
mental, it could be possible for us to be a generous giver. According to the research
and my personal observation, the generous givers are more positive at ease in
their life, and it thus makes them have a longevity life.
Three kinds of giving in Buddhism
As we have mentioned in chapter 10, there are three kinds of
giving in Buddhism. That is as follows:
A. Giving money
or belongings to others. Money or belongings could also be replaced by food,
clothes, medicine, or to be the volunteer and so on.
B. Giving
Buddha-law to others. Buddha-law contains all of the law which is good for
people, including the worldly and unworldly creation. In a word, it means
giving the wisdom to others in any ways.
C. Giving fearlessness to others, which
includes helping people get rid of fear with our courage, saving them from the
dangerous situation, and consoling them with soft words so to let them abandon
the fear. Who is the fearlessness-giver (Who gives people the fearlessness)? Which
you can make a reference in this article: A
Brief Talk about Pusa World-Sounds-Perceiving in Universally Door Chapter
If people are the poor as defined, it is really hard for them to
give any one of the three kinds of giving. On the contrary, if people are not
the poor as defined, it would be more willing to give any one of the three
kinds of giving to others unconditionally.
Once people are “poor” in mental realm, it would be possible to
cause them to be the really poor person in material matters. There is the reason
and the consequence for it as we have mentioned above. In a word, it is because
of shortage of the virtue and wisdom.
The Profoundly Meaning of Giving
So, how to change the situation of poverty in present life and in
the future life? The Key is to give something to others unconditionally. The
said principle is easy to know, however, it is hard to do, especially, when we
are in the stingy mind.
Someone might disagree to this idea. Most people think that to
resolve the problem of personal poverty is to work and to earn money. However,
we have ever heard that being busier in work would lead to be poorer. Why?
Giving something to others is the basic teaching in Buddhism and
is also the basic learning. It is the first method in six kinds of salvation
about how to self-saving and how to save others people to liberate from the
suffering. I tell you why.
First, giving something to others unconditionally and with
no-expecting and no-demanding, it could eliminate our selfish mind and the arrogant-ego.
The selfishness is the imprisoned mind. It would cause the suffering in mind
and any affliction in life. However, most people have no such self perceiving.
When we have taken the first step as said giving, it could decrease our selfish
mind and arrogant-ego little by little, and it is also meant to release our
imprisoned mind.
Secondly, giving something to others unconditionally could
eliminate our heart of desire and greedy. Selfish people desire more in heart
and are greedy in anything. Generally, they demand more from others. However, they
would not give something to others unconditionally. Once their desire and
greedy are not contented, it would cause them to have the emotion of wrath and
hatred in heart.
In this situation, they would bring the disaster and affliction to
themselves and others. For example, as we know, the war could bring the more
death and more poverty, the reason of war is because of the desire, greedy
heart, selfish mind and arrogant-ego that the person who owns any power to
start the war. Do you have ever heard who gain a lot of fortune because of the
war? Only a few people, right? And sometimes, most of them are scolded by the
public. That is because of the selfishness of people to cause the poverty of
most people.
In the history, most of those who start the war are death in
suicide in the end, due to that they could not bear the pain in life. Or they
have been killed by those persons who are more selfish or have the more desire.
All such persons are lack of wisdom.
Therefore, once we have taken the first step as said giving, it
would also mean to remove our desire and greedy heart, and also mean to prevent
any disaster and affliction. A good thought and a good deed would affect the
world peace and bring the wealth of a society and a country.
Third, it could increase our wisdom. When we have removed our
selfish mind, desire and greedy heart, our wisdom would be thus arisen at the
same time. Once our wisdom is arisen, wealth and bliss are waiting there for
us. Why? I tell you a secret. There is a saying, ”God help those who help
themselves.” To increase our wisdom is to help ourselves. That is why God would
help us. As we have mentioned in chapter 10, such wealth and bliss are never
ended. That is also why I have said that giving something to others would let
us have the wealth. The name “God” could be also replaced by “Buddha” or
“Bodhisattva”.
A true story about being lack of wisdom
to lead to the poverty
When we have the wisdom, we could thus avoid any cause to lead to
the poverty. I tell you a true story in our society about being lack of wisdom
to lead to the poverty.
As we know, a judge is paid very well in the work. There is a
judge who has a lot of lust for women. Therefore, he has four wives and eight
children, which is having two children with each wife. His children do not work
and still depend on the economic support from their father, even his children
have grown up. That is because his children are used to the ready-made and
comfortable life and the huge living expense is offered by his father- the
judge. His four wives also rely on the husband's financial support in huge
living expense.
We question why he has so much money to raise his family-the four
wives and eight children? For supporting so many family members in economic,
the salary of the said judge is not enough to pay the living expenses. Then, he
begins to do the dirty thing, taking bribes. And he does the corruption from
his work.
Do you know? When he seems to be responsible to his wives and is a
good father to his children, he really is not responsible to his job, the
public and the country.
Finally, he is in jail, lost his work and his salary. Meanwhile,
he has to give back his illegal gains to the government. In other word, he is
from the rich to the poverty. That is because he is lack of wisdom. When a
person is lack of wisdom, it is impossible for him to save himself to liberate
from the suffering. That is, the shortage of wisdom would push him in the sea
of suffering.
Giving is the first method in six
kinds of salvation in Buddhism.
So, when we have the wisdom, we would have the ability to save us
liberate from the suffering little by little. Once we have totally liberated
from the suffering, we would have the ability to liberate others from the
suffering. That is why giving something to others is the first method in six
kinds of salvation in Buddhism. It is the one of the basis to go into the path
of Buddha.
Giving something to others also means to offer something to
others. As we know, the problem about the unequal in poverty and wealth in the
world is always existed. The 80% wealth of the world is owned by the 20%
population of the world. In other word, more than half population in the world
is in the poverty. In my opinions, that is because most people are lack of wisdom,
let alone to be ignorant.
A lot of ideology is fooling people. But, it is valued as the
knowledge in the academic. Only the human are improved in wisdom and remove the
ignorance, the real equal wealth could be possible to be achieved.
To eliminate the poverty is not so difficult. The easy way is
mentioned above. However, for the people who are suffering the poverty, how
many of them would be willing to give something to others? Let alone to mention
that they have the chance to read this article.
Giving something to others is more blessed than accepting
something from others. Which one would you like to be? If we wish we are the
person who has the ability to give something to others, we would then be more
blessed and richer in life.
Supplementary note: Dao is transliterated
from Chinese, meaning way and method, deeper meaning as a system of learning or
religion. Dao is Tao, which is transliterated from Chinese. The original
meaning of Dao is the way and path, and it is extended to be the truth of life
that we can learn and practice in our lives.